Get Off That App | Curated Social Membership for Black Professionals in NYC

The Problem

The apps keep putting
you back at zero.

You've done the work. You built a life you're proud of. You know exactly who you are — and what you're not willing to entertain anymore.

And still…

  • Strangers who aren't serious
  • Conversations that never go anywhere
  • Energy that feels inconsistent at best, off at worst
  • A "pool" that somehow feels smaller the more you're in it

And if you're a Black professional 40+? You already know — the representation, the nuance, the understanding… it's not always there.

So you end up doing what you shouldn't have to do at this stage: Explaining yourself. Shrinking yourself. Repeating yourself.

The issue isn't you.
It's the environment.

Apps reward

Volume.

You're looking for

Alignment.

Apps reward

Attention.

You're looking for

Intention.

You don't need more options.
You need better ones — pre-aligned before you even meet.

What This Is

Not an app.
An upgrade.

Not

A dating app

Not

Matchmaking

Not

An event list

This is a curated social membership designed for one outcome: real connection with people who make sense for your life now.

Your circle.

Your people.

Your ease.

Yes, there's potential for something more. But this isn't about chasing dates.

It's about upgrading your environment — so connection happens naturally.

Because at this stage, it's not about dating more. It's about living better — with the right people in your life.

How It Works

No algorithms.
No randomness.

No guesswork.

01

Apply

Not everyone gets in — because the experience only works when the people are right.

02

Get understood

A detailed intake that captures how you actually live, move, and connect — not just what you say you want.

03

Get placed intentionally

Every match, pairing, and group is curated by hand. The energy makes sense before you even show up.

04

Experience the shift

Within weeks, conversations feel easy. Within months, you have people you actually want to see on a random Friday. No starting over. No small talk fatigue. Just momentum.

Who This Is For

This is curated —
on purpose.

You're a Black professional in NYC, 40+, who has built something real. You've mastered code-switching — but socially, you're done performing.

For you if
  • You want spaces where you don't have to explain your references
  • You don't have to shrink your personality
  • You don't have to translate who you are
  • Your life is full — but you want it to feel richer
  • You value depth over volume
  • Consistency over confusion
  • Presence over potential
Not for you if
  • You're still chasing casual energy
  • You're unclear on what you want
  • You're not ready to show up fully
  • You still think more swiping is the answer

Membership

Choose how deeply
you want to plug in.

Good Company
$47 / mo — Founding Rate
For consistent, meaningful connection — without overwhelm
  • 2 curated group walks/month (3–4 people, intentional match)
  • 1 Anti-App Social Experiment (1:1 or small pairing, prepaid experience)
  • The Seasons Soundtrack (community-built monthly playlist)
Simple. Consistent. Real.
Better Company
$97 / mo — Founding Rate
For full immersion — more access, more people, more moments
  • Everything in Good Company
  • Additional Social Experiment each month
  • Grown People Conversations
  • Midweek Sunset gatherings
  • Weekend Morning park meetups
  • Curated crawls, scavenger hunts, and social experiences
  • Reintroduction Evenings
  • Holiday closing experience
  • Priority matching + member directory
  • Eligibility for Here (invite-only tier)
The difference isn't the price.
It's how fast your world expands.

Try It First

Not ready to commit?
Experience it.

→ Entry Point

Walk With Me

$5

A small, curated group walk. No pressure. Just see how it feels.

→ Entry Point

Anti-App Social Experiment

$22

A 1:1 or intimate pairing. Pre-matched. Prepaid. Just show up and talk.

No swiping. No guessing. No wasted energy.

If the apps were going to work for you…
they already would have.

FAQ

Questions,
answered.

Get Off That App is a curated social membership for Black professionals in New York City aged 40 and over. It is designed for people who want real connection — a community, a circle, and the possibility of romantic connection — without dating apps or algorithms. Membership is selective and application-based. Every experience is curated by hand.
Neither. Get Off That App is not a dating app, a matchmaking service, or an event list. It is a curated social membership focused on building real community and offline connection. Romantic connection is a possibility that can emerge naturally — but the goal is upgrading your entire social environment, not just your dating life.
This is for Black professionals in NYC, 40 and over, who have built a full life and are done with dating apps. You want intentional connection with people who share your values, your energy, and your life stage. You're ready to show up fully — and you're done performing for spaces that don't deserve it.
You apply, and not everyone is accepted — because the experience only works when the people are right. Accepted applicants complete a detailed intake that captures how you actually live, move, and connect. From there, every match, pairing, and group experience is curated by hand. The energy makes sense before you even show up.
Good Company ($47/month) is consistent and focused — 2 curated group walks per month, 1 Anti-App Social Experiment, and the Seasons Soundtrack playlist. Better Company ($97/month) is full immersion: everything in Good Company plus additional Social Experiments, Grown People Conversations, Midweek Sunset gatherings, weekend park meetups, curated crawls and social experiences, Reintroduction Evenings, a holiday closing experience, priority matching, a member directory, and eligibility for the invite-only Here tier.
Here is the invite-only top tier of membership. It is not publicly listed or openly available. Better Company members become eligible for consideration. Details are shared directly upon eligibility.
The Anti-App Social Experiment is a pre-matched 1:1 or intimate small-group pairing available as a standalone experience for $22 — no membership required. It is prepaid. You show up. You talk. You experience what intentional offline connection actually feels like, with no swiping, no guessing, and no wasted energy.
Yes. Walk With Me is a small curated group walk available for $5 — no pressure, no commitment. The Anti-App Social Experiment is available for $22. Both give you a real experience of what membership feels like before you decide to apply.
Founding rates are the introductory membership prices available to early members during the launch period — $47/month for Good Company and $97/month for Better Company. These rates are not guaranteed to remain available. Founding members lock in their rate for as long as they remain active members.
Yes. Get Off That App is currently built specifically for Black professionals living in New York City. All experiences — group walks, Social Experiments, gatherings, and events — take place in NYC. Expansion to other cities is possible in the future.

Stop starting
over.

Meet your people.

  • Not more swiping
  • Not more randomness
  • Not more almost-connections

Just the right people — in the right rooms — at the right time in your life.

Apply to Join →

Selective. Intentional. Built for you.
Founding rates available now. Not everyone is accepted.

NYC · Black Professionals · 40+